Reconnecting with the Divine Feminine energy

In a world that often glorifies productivity and hustle, I found myself slipping into a mode of constant action and striving—a space deeply rooted in masculine energy. Over time, I noticed a shift in how I looked, felt, and interacted with the world. My essence had become more androgynous, and the spark of sensuality, creativity, and joy I once appreciated about myself felt dimmed.

Here’s how I noticed, accepted, and eventually reclaimed my feminine energy, transforming my life from one of endless “doing” to simply “being.”

1. Recognising When I Stepped Out of Feminine Energy

The first step in my journey was simply noticing. My focus had shifted entirely to action: ticking off tasks, achieving goals, and managing life with laser-sharp logic. While these qualities have their place, they felt imbalanced, overwhelming my natural flow.

I also saw the impact physically—my appearance seemed more structured, my demeanour less gentle. The beauty of feminine energy is in its softness and receptivity, and I could feel its absence.

Acceptance was key here. Instead of judging myself, I acknowledged that I’d wandered off course. This awareness opened the door to change.

2. Quieting the Inner Chatter with Nurturing Practices

Feminine energy thrives on love and kindness, so I started by turning that nurturing inward. I greeted my inner critic—the voice pushing me to keep achieving—with compassion, not combativeness.

I’d listen to it and gently reassure it:
"Thank you for trying to keep me safe, but it’s okay to step back now. Let’s find ease instead."

I also incorporated small rituals that felt beautifully feminine:

• Using our Divine feminine essential oil blend.

• Cooking and cleaning not as chores, but as acts of love and mindfulness.

• Romanticising the simple things, like dancing in my living room or cloud watching.

• Indulging in content from feminine creators, purely for inspiration and joy.

Most importantly, I gave myself permission to just be. I let go of to-do lists, following what felt light and joyful instead of what seemed obligatory.

3. Letting Go of the Need to Force Change

Here’s a lesson I learned the hard way: the more I tried to force my way back into feminine energy, the more I stayed stuck in the masculine. Feminine energy isn’t about control or forcing results; it’s about surrender and flow.

I practiced stepping out of logical, linear thinking and into the present moment. Instead of analysing, I allowed myself to feel. The softness returned as I released the grip of expectations and embraced ease.

4. Normalising Inspiration and Sensuality

Reclaiming my feminine energy wasn’t just about letting go—it was about welcoming in new ways of being. I focused on making inspiration and sensuality an everyday experience.

Rather than trying to manifest steps or outcomes, I held onto the feeling of femininity by:

• Visualising soft, flowing colours or floating in space as if was completely weightless

• Imagining myself dancing in a field of flowers or wrapped in luxurious silk.

• Connecting with the scents and textures that reminded me of beauty and grace.

These visualisations and practices grounded me in the essence of feminine energy—flowing, radiant, and alive.

Final Thoughts: Flowing Back Into My Feminine Energy

The journey back to feminine energy is not about perfection or rigid practices. It’s about coming home to yourself, dropping the need to struggle and allowing life to unfold naturally.

If you’re on a similar journey, be gentle with yourself. Reclaiming feminine energy isn’t a race or a checklist—it’s an invitation to embrace the beauty, ease, and softness that’s already within you.

Remember, you don’t need to do anything extraordinary to embody your feminine energy. Just allow yourself to feel, to flow, and to be.